Love is one of the most confusing things we experience in life, and believe me, I’ve had my share of heartbreak and confusion over the years. However, when I FINALLY figured out what is healthy love vs. toxic and addictive love, it was like the fog had completely lifted from my entire mindset. You know that song, “I can see clearly now that the rain is gone…” I had that kind of V8 moment!
Before I met my sweet chemist and I was calling him into my physical sphere, I focused on the following:
| ▪ How I wanted to feel being in a relationship (ex: supported in my decisions about my goals in life, we both apologize when misunderstandings happen because we are a team, etc.) |
▪ What kind of daily interaction in our relationship (ex: we talk openly about everything, even if it’s hard to discuss some things, we eat together, etc.)
▪ How our relationship’s foundation is built (ex: keep our finances together or separate, share a bedroom or have separate bedrooms, have one night each week dedicated to “our” time, have one day each week dedicated to solo time for some space, etc.)
BEFORE You Meet Them
It’s important to get CLEAR on these types of things BEFORE you meet another soul so that you have healthy boundaries in place for your OWN self-care. The person who is right for you will easily slip into your life, and you both will have a mutual understanding of your relationship, which will make it easier to be committed to one another and creates a healthy love. I encourage you to explore what YOU want in your ideal relationship while performing your ManiFASTing using “Don’t Feel Stuck in Love!” as your guide.
One very important thing I want to emphasize to you is this:
The way you treat YOURSELF is what you attract TO YOU.
Reply and let me know what comes up for you, I really want to know! See you soon and remember to use your affirmations daily. Here is one of mine, feel free to use it:
I always attract abundance to me,